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<a href=\"index-2.html\">2<\/a> &#8211; <a href=\"index-3.html\">3<\/a><br \/><\/font><\/b>&#13;\n      <\/p>\n<p>\u00a0<\/p>\n<\/td>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<td width=\"502\" valign=\"top\" height=\"602\" align=\"left\">&#13;<br \/>\n      <font color=\"#FF6600\" size=\"5\"><b class=\"titler\">7 Myths About Creating A &#13;<br \/>\n      Better Relationship<\/b><\/font><br \/>&#13;<br \/>\n      \u00a0by: <font color=\"#FF6600\"><b class=\"author\">Cecil McIntosh<\/b> <\/font>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>In my private practice for over 14 years no matter what my clients have &#13;<br \/>\n      come to see me about, there has always been an issue about a better &#13;<br \/>\n      relationship. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Here are 7 of the most common misconceptions my clients have related to &#13;<br \/>\n      me about having a better relationship. These misconceptions are followed &#13;<br \/>\n      by my perspective on each one of them. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Myth 1 I have to love everything about my partner <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Reality Check 1 <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>You were born pure and pristine. You then learnt behaviors from your &#13;<br \/>\n      parents, teacher, coaches, church etc. (who did their best to teach you &#13;<br \/>\n      about a better relationship). These behaviors have become the backbone for &#13;<br \/>\n      your way of living and having a better relationship. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Perhaps a common behavior that irritates having a better relationship &#13;<br \/>\n      would be leaving the toilet seat up after use. This is merely a behavior &#13;<br \/>\n      and not the essence of the person. However, when you may consider this &#13;<br \/>\n      behavior to be the person, this destroys the concept of a better &#13;<br \/>\n      relationship, creating all kinds of conflict in your need for a better &#13;<br \/>\n      relationship. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Myth 2 Love means that I can fix your partner <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Reality Check 2 <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>You met your partner because of some special quality or charteristic &#13;<br \/>\n      that you admired. You need to accept and allow that quality to flourish in &#13;<br \/>\n      order to allow you and your partner to grow into a better relationship.&#13;\n      <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>You may be unaware that you do not even like yourself. Yet by allowing &#13;<br \/>\n      your partner to grow and expand, you will experience the quality of your &#13;<br \/>\n      partner and the beauty within you, as you begin to enjoy a better &#13;<br \/>\n      relationship. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Myth 3 <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>I am supposed to give up the things I like in order to be in a better &#13;<br \/>\n      relationship. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Reality Check 3 <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Giving up the things you like to be in a better relationship is like &#13;<br \/>\n      take a knife and cutting away a part of yourself. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Your better relationship is based on the uniqueness of you and your &#13;<br \/>\n      partner. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>When you give up your uniqueness you rob yourself of a better &#13;<br \/>\n      relationship, your passion and your partner of your creativity. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Myth 4 I will be rescued by a knight in shining armour <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Reality Check 4 <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>You may have been conditioned to live your life expecting someone to &#13;<br \/>\n      take care of you. What happens if that person becomes ill? and is no &#13;<br \/>\n      longer able to take care of you. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Your responsibility in creating a better relationship, is to bring your &#13;<br \/>\n      passion to the table of your relationship. Some days you will be the &#13;<br \/>\n      knight in shining armour and another day your partner will be the knight &#13;<br \/>\n      in shining armour of a better relationship. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>You will each get a chance to shine like star in a better relationship &#13;<br \/>\n      because of your strengths and weaknesses. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Myth 5 It cost a lot to be in a relationship <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Reality Check 5 <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>In a material context, a better relationship can be expensive if you &#13;<br \/>\n      think that love is based on the bigger house, car or boat. Although some &#13;<br \/>\n      of these material assets are necessary, they should not be at the expense &#13;<br \/>\n      of creating a better relationship. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Love is creating a better relationship by building a relationship that &#13;<br \/>\n      is based on the simple things in life, like walking and holding hands, &#13;<br \/>\n      going on a picnic (just the two of you), or sharing an ice cream. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Love in a better relationship is not about what you show on the outside &#13;<br \/>\n      but what you express in you heart. Love is not about money or materialism, &#13;<br \/>\n      love just is. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Myth 6 Love in a relationship is or is not a feeling <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Reality Check 6 <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>It is not what you say, it is what you do. You can say, &#8220;I love you&#8221; &#13;<br \/>\n      which may be merely words and no feelings (action). Love is the action of &#13;<br \/>\n      doing. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>If you make a cup of tea for yourself, (the water is boiled), make a &#13;<br \/>\n      cup of tea for your partner. Whether your partner wants the tea or not is &#13;<br \/>\n      irrelevant, it is the thought that counts and the action that cements a &#13;<br \/>\n      better relationship. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Myth 7 I don&#8217;t have to work at my relationship <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>Reality Check 7 <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>As a child, you learned to creep before you walked. Then you learned &#13;<br \/>\n      the letters of the alphabet. In order to write, you had to learn how to &#13;<br \/>\n      put those letters together to make words and sentences. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>These sentences then become the way in which you communicated. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>When you and your partner stop communicating after learning how to use &#13;<br \/>\n      the letters of the alphabet in sentences, it&#8217;s like 2 tape recorders &#13;<br \/>\n      talking to each other &#8211; Nobody is at home to enjoy a better relationship.&#13;\n      <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>In summary: <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>1. Your partner&#8217;s behavior in a better relationship is not your &#13;<br \/>\n      partner&#8217;s true essence. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>2. There is no need to have a clone of yourself. A better relationship &#13;<br \/>\n      requires some variety. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<\/p>\n<p>3. 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