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<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td align=\"left\" height=\"19\">\n<div align=\"justify\"><span class=\"style2\">by: &#13;<br \/>\n                <font size=\"3\" face=\"Times New Roman\" color=\"#FB7014\">Mershon Niesner<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n            <\/tr>\n<tr>\n<div id=\"article\">\n<td align=\"left\" height=\"12\"><span class=\"style2\">I believe that finding, sustaining, growing, and enjoying satisfying relationships is one of greatest joys and challenges we have as human beings. We have generally been blessed with a tremendous desire to love and be loved; to listen and be listened to; to take care of and accept care from others. And yet meaningful, sustainable relationships often elude us \u0096 especially as it applies to the opposite sex.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nHere are some things I\u0092ve learned in my walk through life &#8211; as a divorced single mom, widower, and over 50 remarried &#8211; about finding and sustaining a \u0093soul-mate\u0094 relationship:<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n1. Know who you are and what you want. You\u0092ll never get what you want if you don\u0092t know what it is. As women look for love, we often take what comes our way rather than seeking what and who we want. Knowing the type of person you want to spend the rest of your life with comes from knowing who you are \u0096 your values, interests, what you can\/will tolerate, what you won\u0092t. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n2. Learn how to disagree, speak your mind, and\/or confront.<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nAvoiding conflict is death for a marriage. It may seem like you\u0092re on the right path by never, ever arguing or disagreeing but avoiding conflict requires repression of anger, which leads to depression of feelings. Passion is extinguished in this environment. Learn to fight fair and keep the slate clear. (see article on What Are You Afraid Of?)<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n3. Speaking of passion \u0096 keep the fire lit! I think women often underestimate the critical role sexuality and having a really good sex life plays in a successful marriage. Men, you know what I\u0092m talking about! Create romantic opportunities, ask for what you want, talk, talk, talk \u0096 do what you as a couple need to do to keep this aspect of your relationship alive and well. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n4. Don\u0092t allow children and child-raising to take precedence over your marital relationship. A great marriage is the best gift you can give your children. Get away from the kids on a regular basis. Find a good sitter! Arrange for an overnight with just the two of you at least once a year. Talk about matters other than the kids, the bills, the family. Someday it will just be the two of you again. Be sure you still know each other.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n5. Take responsibility for your actions and affirm each other. Say, \u0093I\u0092m sorry\u0094 when you make a mistake or hurt your partner. Say, \u0093Thank you\u0094 when they do something for you. Appreciate what your husband does! Don\u0092t take \u0093expected\u0094 action for granted. Recognition and affirmation are two of the best gifts you can give each other. Spend them freely.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n6. Don\u0092t take on the persona of, \u0093I shouldn\u0092t have to ask \u0096 he should know.\u0094 This is one of the greatest mistakes women make in a relationship. I hear women say things like, \u0093But if I have to ask for it, the real meaning\/pleasure\/gesture is lost.\u0094 Get over it! Men can\u0092t read our minds. They\u0092re not always tuned in or on the same wave length. Maybe they just don\u0092t know. Be a big girl and ask for what you want! (I\u0092m pretty tough on this issue)<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n7. Get help if you need it. Don\u0092t put your head under a bushel. If your relationship is in trouble (no matter whose \u0093fault\u0094 either one of you thinks it is), seek out ways to make it better. Find a relationship coach, a therapist, a marriage counselor, a book \u0096 I highly recommend John Gray\u0092s Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus In the Bedroom (it\u0092s on tape so you can listen to it together), Don\u0092t give up \u0096 keep searching and talking and striving until things get better. The answer rarely lies in changing partners. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nCoaching tip <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nReview what you have, what you want, the hidden or apparent treasure of love. If you have a soul mate, never, never take this relationship for granted. It is rare indeed!<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;&gt;<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nThe average man is more interested in a woman who is <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ninterested in him than a woman with beautiful legs.<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nMarlene Dietrich, actress<\/p>\n<p><b\/><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/td>\n<\/div>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"article_bio\">Mershon Niesner, PCC, CPCC Professional Certified Coach<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nAuthor of Ribbons of Love \u0096 Affirmations for Abundant Living. 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