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class=\"style7\">&#13;<br \/>\n                <font color=\"#FB7014\" size=\"4\" face=\"Tahoma\">Things To Think About Regarding Dating After Divorce<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n            <\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td align=\"left\" height=\"19\">\n<div align=\"justify\"><span class=\"style2\">by: &#13;<br \/>\n                <font size=\"3\" face=\"Times New Roman\" color=\"#FB7014\">Karl Augustine<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n            <\/tr>\n<tr>\n<div id=\"article\">\n<td align=\"left\" height=\"12\"><span class=\"style2\">Article Description:<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\n====================<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nDating after divorce is a much debated topic due to the <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\npsychological and emotional impact it can have on people. <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nDating after divorce can be complex&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nDating After Divorce: Things To Think About Regarding Dating After Divorce Copyright \u00a9 2005 Karl Augustine A Practical Guide To Deciding Whether Or Not To Get A Divorce http:\/\/www.deciding-on-divorce.com\/<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nDating after divorce is a much debated topic due to the <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\npsychological and emotional impact it can have on people. Dating <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nafter divorce can be complex, too often divorcees don&#8217;t consider <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthe ramifications of dating after divorce before they jump into <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nit with both feet!<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n   If you&#8217;re going to start dating again after you&#8217;ve gotten a <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\n   divorce, there&#8217;s quite few things that you should consider <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\n   beforehand&#8230;here&#8217;s a partial list you might want to think <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\n   about: <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nDating after divorce consideration 1: Make sure that you are <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\naware of your own level of self-confidence.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nIf are considering dating after divorce, be certain that you are <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\neither confident in yourself as a person or are at least aware of <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nyour level of self-confidence so you can plan accordingly. Self- confidence will help you to remain lucid when you&#8217;re dating after <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ndivorce. Choosing who to date and why you want to date them can <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nbe a major turning point in your emotional health after a <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ndivorce. If you&#8217;re self-confident, chances are good that you&#8217;ll <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nbe able to handle being rejected or ignored if you&#8217;re just <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nbeginning a relationship.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nIf you&#8217;re truly self-confident, you&#8217;ll be able to have the right <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nmind set before you begin dating after divorce and any potential <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nlet down will be foreseen by you and &#8220;non-damaging&#8221; to your <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nemotional state. Self confidence is perhaps the most important <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthing to think about from an emotional health perspective <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nregarding dating after divorce.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nDating after divorce consideration 2: How quickly should you date <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nafter getting a divorce?<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nFortunately, this is really only a question that you can answer, <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nassuming your divorce is truly over with and you don&#8217;t have a <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ncustody battle that&#8217;s ongoing, a dispute about assets or <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nfinances, or any other type of lingering agreement that needs to <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nbe reached that could be impaired by dating. If you have <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nchildren, this is a question of their strength and the strength <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nof your relationship with them.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nIf you don&#8217;t have children, this decision is entirely up to you <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nregarding how you&#8217;ll approach dating after divorce. Ask yourself <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nhow ready you really are to date again&#8230;depending on what you <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nwant out of dating after divorce, i.e., what the end result is to <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nany solid dating relationship, will drive how quickly you date <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nagain. If you&#8217;re simply lonely and think you need to date again <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\njust for the sake of dating or to test how you&#8217;ll respond to <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ndating, you may want to do a serious self evaluation regarding <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nyour confidence level. You will know when you&#8217;re ready again to <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nbegin dating after divorce &#8211; everyone&#8217;s different. Know yourself <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nfirst, then make the decision.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nDating after divorce consideration 3: Should I date while going <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthrough a divorce?<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMost coaches, attorneys, and counselors will tell you that dating <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nwhile going through a divorce is never a good thing to do from a <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\npsychological perspective and a legal perspective. While this <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\narticle isn&#8217;t a form of legal advice, common sense tells you that <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nif you&#8217;re in any type of battle regarding marital assets or <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ncustody, avoid any dating.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&gt;From an emotional health perspective, dating while going through<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\na divorce can be damaging to you and your &#8220;soon to be&#8221; ex-spouse. <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nYou&#8217;ll be much more mature after the divorce if you self evaluate <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nto figure out how you contributed to the events that lead to your <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ndivorce. Handling yourself in a caring and sturdy emotional <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nmanner during a divorce can be an extremely difficult thing to <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ndo&#8230;but, it is a terrific growing and learning process. Make use <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nof it! Grow as a person and learn about yourself, and you&#8217;ll be <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nfar better off after the divorce is final.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nDating after divorce consideration 4: Consider that you may have <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\na tendency to date someone completely opposite from your spouse <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nand realize that this isn&#8217;t healthy.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nDating after divorce is tricky! Be smart, realize that the pain <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nyou may have felt at the hands of your spouse can naturally lead <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nyou to want to date someone who is an opposite of your ex. It is <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\na reasonable and natural reaction because you might want to avoid <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nhaving any pain whatsoever or you may not want to deal with <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nanyone who might remind you of your ex-spouse.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nIf you find yourself looking for someone who is your ex&#8217;s <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nopposite when dating after divorce, take a deep breath and ask <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nyourself if this tactic is truly healthy for you. If you answer <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\n&#8216;yes&#8217;, then you&#8217;re saying that there was nothing good about your <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nspouse and that you&#8217;re a poor decision maker or else you would <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nhave never gotten married to your ex in the first place!<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nInstead, think of the things you&#8217;d like to see in someone that <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nwould make you want to date them and look at the person in and of <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthemselves only. If you see something in them that reminds you of <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nyour ex-spouse, decide whether that something is a good trait or <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nan undesirable trait. Only then can you decide about that person <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nin positive fashion. Your spouse has or had some good traits, <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ndefine what they are and don&#8217;t be afraid to see those traits in <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nsomeone that you are dating after divorce.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nDating after divorce consideration 5: Do what you need to in <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\norder to have a positive outlook on your future after your <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ndivorce.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nWhen thinking about dating after divorce, and all the possible <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nfires that can go with it, keep in mind that you need to feel <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ngood about yourself to be lucid. A positive outlook on life is <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nkey to everything else, and all the future decisions that you <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nwill make after your divorce. Go and do fun things with friends <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nand get out! You should certainly keep your guard up but don&#8217;t be <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\noverly critical of everything or you may get so paralyzed be your <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nanalysis that you never actually &#8220;get in the game.&#8221; Your frame of <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nmind on any relationship &#8211; friend or not &#8211; after divorce is key <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nfactor to your happiness. Keeping a clear head and heart is a <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nhealthy thing. 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