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class=\"style7\">&#13;<br \/>\n                <font color=\"#FB7014\" size=\"4\" face=\"Tahoma\">Online Dating: 10 Critical Mistakes ALL People Make \u0096 Including You!<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n            <\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td align=\"left\" height=\"19\">\n<div align=\"justify\"><span class=\"style2\">by: &#13;<br \/>\n                <font size=\"3\" face=\"Times New Roman\" color=\"#FB7014\">Elena Solomon<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n            <\/tr>\n<tr>\n<div id=\"article\">\n<td align=\"left\" height=\"12\"><span class=\"style2\">Copyright (C) 2005 Elena Solomon<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nOnline dating is fascinating.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nYou can meet thousands of available singles that are literally just a click away, seeking love, romance, dating, marriage, friendship \u0096 and yes, of course sex. Men and women alike join dating services hoping to make new friends and start new relationships. <\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nBut there are some common mistakes ALL people make when using Internet personals \u0096 including YOU!<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nHere are ten common mistakes all people make when dating online. Check out if you are guilty of some of them.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMISTAKE #1 &#8211; \u0093Giving it a try\u0094Most people start using online personals with the attitude \u0093Let me give it a try and see where it goes\u0094. They don\u0092t really think they WILL meet someone \u0096 they only HOPE to meet someone. What is the difference? When you \u0093hope\u0094 to succeed, you don\u0092t try hard enough \u0096 if it works, great, if it does not work, fine, at least I\u0092ve tried. When you think you \u0093will\u0094 meet someone, and it does not work, you change something in your approach to online dating to get the results you want.<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nBOTTOM LINE: Don\u0092t \u0093give it a try\u0094 \u0096 do your best.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMISTAKE #2 &#8211; Hoping \u0093the right person will find you\u0094Most people don\u0092t pay when post their profiles on online dating sites, which usually means they can receive letters but cannot answer ads of other members. They hope people will be writing to them. If you are an 18-year-old model-type girl, this may work for you. But if you are not, then you shouldn\u0092t hope your dream partner would email you out of blue. You will get much better results if pay for premium membership to the dating site and write to people yourself. <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nBOTTOM LINE: Contact other people; don\u0092t wait for them to contact you.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMISTAKE #3 &#8211; Sending one-linersIt\u0092s amazing how many people using online personals send letters of the type \u0093Hi, liked your profile, please see my profile\u0094. If your photo does not impress the other person in an instant, most likely they will just delete your email. Some *might* actually read your profile \u0096 and if there is nothing in your profile that impresses them in an instant, then they will also just delete your email. <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nBOTTOM LINE: Write letters that have some substance in them.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMISTAKE #4 &#8211; Sending form lettersI always know when I receive a form letter &#8211; always! I am sure you know it too. If there are no personal references in the letter, I know this letter was not written specially for me. No one wants to be one of the crowd. Every person wants to be special!<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nBOTTOM LINE: Write individual letters for each person you contact.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMISTAKE #5 &#8211; Writing boring lettersMany people are guilty of this one. They write about things they want to say and not what the other person wants to hear.The result: letters that are plain BORING.Remember: it\u0092s not about YOU \u0096 it\u0092s about THEM! Tell them what you liked about their profile so much that you decided to write to them. Some things may be uncertain in their profiles \u0096 ask questions and guess the answers. For example, she ticked \u0093Tell you later\u0094 in her profile about kids \u0096 if she did not have any kids, she would say so. Ask if she has kids and tell her you think she does and that you just love kiddies. A person who actually THINKS and what more \u0096 thinks ABOUT HER, it\u0092s indeed something special, and your letter is sure to get noticed. Don\u0092t talk much about yourself in your letter (she can always read your profile) &#8211; tell her why you think you will be the right guy for HER. If you do not fit her requirements 100%, tell her why it won\u0092t be a problem. You pride yourself as having great sense of humor? Back up your claim \u0096 make her laugh! From the first line, your letter should grab her attention and she should not be able to stop reading till the end. THEN she will be certainly compelled to check your profile on the Internet personals website.<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nBOTTOM LINE: Write interesting letters \u0096 the type of letters you would like to receive.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMISTAKE #6 &#8211; Contacting dozens of members at onceOnce people pay for their premium membership to the online dating site, they tend to contact dozens of members at once. The reason for that is that they don\u0092t hope to receive much response. STOP for a minute: what are you actually looking for? Most of us are interested to start a relationship with someone special. In fact, all you need is only one person \u0096 but the one who is RIGHT for you. Do you really want to correspond with 50 people at a time? Spend more time reading profiles on the site, and then select a precious few that you like the most and write to them. Make sure you get responses from your favorites before contacting other people.<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nBOTTOM LINE: Don\u0092t contact dozens of people at once \u0096 concentrate on the ones you like the most.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMISTAKE #7 &#8211; Not following upLet\u0092s face it: we live in a fast-paced world. We tell people \u0093Let\u0092s get together soon\u0094 and forget it in an instant. We send an email, never get a response and lose the contact forever. This is extremely important when using Internet personals: if you do not get a response, follow up. Send another email. Tell them you are waiting for an answer and you want to hear from them even if they are NOT interested. Having somebody who is really interested in you is not very common nowadays. This very fact may convince people to answer you. Check if they are premium members. If they are not, they might have to pay the membership fee before they are allowed to answer your email, and this is the reason why they did not respond. Check the rules of the website before assuming they are not interested.<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nBOTTOM LINE: Follow up. Make sure there are no technical problems averting your contact.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMISTAKE #8 &#8211; Not having a photo in your profileIf you don\u0092t have a picture in your profile, you are missing out on people\u0092s attention great deal. Many great singles, men and women alike, NEVER answer mails from members without photos \u0096 leave alone writing to them. If you are concerned about privacy, take a photo where you are in the distance and hardly recognizable, or put on sunglasses. Smiling broadly also changes your face. <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nBOTTOM LINE: Put a photo in your profile. This is proven to increase your chances up to 10 times.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMISTAKE #9 &#8211; Bad body language on the photosWhen people look at your photos, they try to figure out what kind of person you are. If you cross your arms of legs, or in any other way \u0093cover\u0094 your body on the photos, placing a barrier between you and the viewer, you make them think you are timid, insecure and lack confidence. Use open body language  &#8211; open palms, arms on the sides of your body \u0096 never \u0093covering\u0094 it, smile and \u0093look\u0094 the viewers in the eyes. <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nBOTTOM LINE: Check your body language \u0096 people make their opinion about your personality by looking at your photos.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nMISTAKE #10 &#8211; Giving upYou\u0092ve tried this and that and nothing worked, so you give up: \u0093Internet dating just doesn\u0092t work for me\u0094. That\u0092s the biggest mistake of all. What you should do is to use your negative experience and learn WHY it did not work. Look at profiles of other people that attracted you and compare it with your own profile. Try to change your wording. Get a new photo with a happy smile. Try to contact somebody you feel nothing about and see how it goes. Maybe you are just trying too hard? Treat your search for a partner as you would treat the search for a new job: if at first you don\u0092t succeed, try and try again. Make it your habit to check new listings every day and write to one person. See what works and use it again. Borrow ideas from other people. Just don\u0092t give up!<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nBOTTOM LINE: Online dating works. All you need to do is to gain experience. Practice makes perfect. Your special person is waiting for you!<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nABOUT THE AUTHOR: Elena Solomon works in online dating since the early days of WWW. She is the exclusive dating consultant of Soulmades.com.au \u0096 Internet personals for singles seeking love, romance, relationships and fun.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nElena is the author of &#8220;12 Simple Rules for Success in Love, Life and Online Dating&#8221;. For a limited time, you can get this popular e-book absolutely FREE at http:\/\/www.soulmades.com.au\/freebook (normally sells for $49.95).<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nGet it today \u0096 the offer is limited!<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-=-<\/p>\n<p><b\/><\/p>\n<p><\/span><\/td>\n<\/div>\n<\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td class=\"article_bio\">Elena Solomon works in online dating since the early days of WWW. 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