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class=\"style7\">&#13;<br \/>\n                <font color=\"#FB7014\" size=\"4\" face=\"Tahoma\">Relationship Advice: Follow Your Gut!<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n            <\/tr>\n<tr>\n<td align=\"left\" height=\"19\">\n<div align=\"justify\"><span class=\"style2\">by: &#13;<br \/>\n                <font size=\"3\" face=\"Times New Roman\" color=\"#FB7014\">Justin C Luyt<\/font><\/span><\/div>\n<\/td>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n            <\/tr>\n<tr>\n<div id=\"article\">\n<td align=\"left\" height=\"12\"><span class=\"style2\">Relationship Advice: Follow Your Gut!<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nCopyright \u00a9 2005 Justin C. Luyt<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nThe Spirit of Romance<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nhttp:\/\/www.SpiritOfRomance.com<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nWhen people seek relationship advice from a trusted friend <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nor family member, it is most likely a waste of time, says <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nrelationship author Justin Luyt.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#8220;We ask for relationship advice often when we feel we do not have <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthe answers to our relationship challenges,&#8221; Luyt says. &#8220;We grasp <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nfor external wisdom, with the false belief that we do not know <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthe answers, but if we are being authentic to ourselves, we have <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthose answers.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nLuyt recently published The Spirit of Romance, a book that offers <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nreaders practical relationship advice and uses interactive <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nplanning tools to not just change thoughts, but feelings and <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nbehavior, too. Using the term &#8220;Spirit&#8221;, Luyt defines the inner <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nsource people must acknowledge before looking honestly inside <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthemselves instead of seeking relationship advice from others.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#8220;We know why we are where we are in the relationship,&#8221; Luyt <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nsays, &#8220;but often avoid our own internal introspection. Spirit <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nchallenges us to grow and learn.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nHe insists that by strengthening relationship with Spirit, <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\npeople can truly grow and move past the challenges at hand.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#8220;When we ask for help from a friend, it is for an ear&#8230; not <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nguidance,&#8221; he summarizes.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nThroughout his book, Luyt offers a look at self-reflective <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nrelationship advice, all based on Spirit, which allows people to <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nsee others in their true light, as people filled with desires, <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ndreams and vulnerabilities.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nLuyt writes people seek mutual personal and spiritual growth as <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthe basis for any relationship. His ideas of Spirit inspire <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\npeople too look within their core being to experience something <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthey can understand and feel completely. This acceptance of <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nSpirit negates the need for outside relationship advice when <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\npeople can answer the crucial questions with knowledge from <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nwithin.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nWhen a relationship changes form or course, people have it within <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ntheir Spirit to redirect their energies from sensitivity and <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nvulnerability to spiritual strength.  This strength gives people <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthe ability to become their own relationship advisors because <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nthey have gained the insight necessary to overcome false doubts.<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nLuyt writes, &#8220;People are here to grow; and spiritual growth <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\noccurs in a space of love, not fear.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\nThrough his public speaking and counseling work, the South <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nAfrican native has developed the Accelerated Romance Coaching <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nProgram, a one-of-a-kind mentoring and coaching system for <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nsingles and couples. Various Fortune 500 companies have used his <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\ntrans-continental engagingly fresh, out-of-the-box  and into- reality approach for group seminars, training and coaching. <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nHis book, The Spirit of Romance, is available at:  <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nhttp:\/\/www.SpiritOfRomance.com<\/p>\n<p>&#13;<br \/>\n&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;&#8212;<br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nJustin Luyt has been doing Coaching and Consulting for over 12 <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nyears. He is the published author of &#8220;The Spirit of Romance&#8221; and <br \/>&#13;<br \/>\nfacilitates numerous seminars. 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